Roger was born in Yankton, South Dakota (he liked to say “Home of Lawrence Welk”) on October 12, 1943 to Forrest “Pappy” Brower, WWII Marine Corps Ace, and Margaret Linde Brower, both from Nebraska. Roger loved the story of how his father actually decked out Greg “Pappy” Boyington (famous Marine Corp Ace and legend) at a Pacific theater “Office Club” over the use of the name “Pappy.” Roger’s father maintained that he became a “Pappy” first.Roger spent his young life as Boy Scout and traveled all over the U.S. as a military “brat.” He shared his father’s passion for aviation and also became a train buff.Roger graduated from Santa Ana Valley High School in 1962. He went on to Santa Ana Junior College and studied journalism and photography. There is documented proof that he crashed the World Series in 1962 as a journalism project, and he became familiar with famous journalists and announcer Vin Scully. He received an award from the Orange County Press Club and it was presented by “Gypsy” Rose Lee.In 1965, Roger enlisted in the U.S. Navy and served 24 years as an aviation mechanic and avionics/warfare specialist during the Vietnam era. During 14 years in the Reserves he had the excitement of flying DC-6/C-118 aircraft all over South America and Europe, and loved sharing his adventures. Roger also was in the Civil Service supporting the Navy Reserves as an Avionics Supervisor until his retirement in 1998.Roger had his pilot’s license and held certificates for Private, Commercial, A&P and FCC. He owned Beech T-34 Mentor and was a member of the T-34 Association.Roger was a mechanic crewmember, photojournalist and race radio frequency manager at the Reno Air Races for over 35 years. He crewed on various unlimited class airplanes such as the P-51 Mustang, F4U Corsair, P-38 Lightning and Yak 11. Most recently Roger crewed with his wife Sally and friend Bob Brown on award winning Formula Bi-plane class airplanes. One of them earned a prestigious “Pulitzer” Award in Aviation.Roger’s other passion was railroading. He was involved with the restoration of locomotive 2472 and vintage railroad cars and a caboose in Northern California. He also was a conductor/crew chief on many privately owned or museum train excursions such as the Gilroy Garlic Train. Roger and his wife Sally became involved with the restoration and operation of the 1892 Porter steam locomotive at the Fillmore and Western Railway.Roger married his wife Sally in 1996 in Oakland, CA onboard a vintage United DC-6 airliner that they were restoring at the Oakland United Maintenance Facility.Roger and Sally relocated to Santa Paula in 1999 and became very active in their local community as volunteers. They loved Santa Paula Airport, and manned the Radio Hangar on the First Sundays at the Airport with good friends Skip Dunham and Dale Donaldson. They were involved with the CAF at Camarillo Airport, and with the EC-121 Connie and Martin 404 airliner.Roger is survived by his wife, Sally Knight; sisters Beth Brower and Mary Abelow; brother Rick Brower and his wife Ursula; nieces Megan, Katie, Alexis and Camille; great-niece Charlotte; and cousins Thomas Lynde of Lancaster, Meg Lag of Camarillo, Patty Foord of Monterey and Kathy DesLauriers of Los Angeles.Roger had a recurring dream,It was as strange as it may seem.On a park bench sat his dadand friend Wayne,They both were in heavenand said it was a shame,That Roger won’t yet join them in their heavenly terrain.So back came Roger to his earthly abode,To “Go enjoy more of Life!” as they both had told.Then one day they appeared one last time in his peaceful slumber,To come away with them and be “right in the number!”When the Saints go marching in!- By Sally KnightA memorial service will be held at the Phoenix Flight hangar at Santa Paula Airport August 8 at 6 p.m., with the scattering of his ashes over South Mountain. A reception and a celebration of his life will follow at the same location. All are welcome to attend.Arrangements under the direction of Skillin Carroll Mortuary, 805/ 525-3391.Sharon Ann CrismanSharon Ann Crisman, age 65, passed away at home Wednesday morning, July 29, 2009 in Bullhead City, Arizona. She was born to Meddie and Robert Leachman in Compton, CA on July 16, 1944. Only five months later, her father died in WWII action at the Battle of the Bulge in Belgium.When Sharon’s mother remarried, she was adopted by Ted Zitar and was raised in South Gate, CA. After a series of moves in her teens, her family arrived in Santa Paula her sophomore high school year. They bought a home on Santa Paula’s west end and lived in the same house for 39 years.Sharon worked 14 years for Santa Paula Memorial Hospital, two years at Peterson Medical Clinic, and 16 years as Medical/Medicare Billing Supervisor for the County of Ventura, retiring in 2003.Sharon always wanted to retire in Las Vegas, but when the population exploded there it changed her destination to Laughlin/Bullhead City. Since moving to Bullhead City in 2005 she could be found in the Bingo Rooms every Tuesday, Thursday and Friday mornings, along with her many friends she met there.Sharon loved travel, with many trips to Hawaii, and several cruises to Alaska, Mexico and the Caribbean and, her favorite, to the Mediterranean. She especially loved Rome.Sharon is survived by her husband Gordon; daughter Kimberly Darbison and her husband Dan, and granddaughter Amber and grandson Scott of Pauls Valley, Oklahoma; daughter Meredith Torres and her husband Richard, and granddaughter Heather Hurst of Santa Paula, CA; brother Bob Zitar and his wife Marilyn, and nephew Robbie of Palos Verdes, CA; and many extended family members and friends in the Santa Paula-Ventura County area.It was her request for private cremation and no services.
Obituaries
August 05, 2009
Obituaries
Denise K. Glover
Denise K. Glover, age 53, passed away at home in Berkeley, CA on July 9, 2009, surrounded by loved ones. She battled cancer for three years with courage and grace, and was an inspiration to all who knew her.Denise was born December 21, 1955 in Bakersfield, CA. She attended Santa Paula schools, graduating from Santa Paula High School in 1974.Denise, an honors student, earned a degree in business from San Diego State University, and a certificate in financial planning from U.C. Berkeley. She was founder and managing partner of a financial services and management consulting firm.Part of her medical center’s therapy for their cancer patients was a poetry writing class. Denise composed this poem in November 2008:Late NightsI thought life was promised to me.I found the place I wanted to live.I saw respect in my parents’ eyes.I discovered work that gaveme purpose and joy.I ate fiber and exercised.I thought life was promised to me.I enjoyed my birthdays and ate my experience cake.I listened to the difficult conversations and did the dirty work.I found the great love of mylife and held on tight.I laughed with friends untilmy cheeks hurt.I thought life was promised to me.I laid in the dark and felt the easy breathing and warmth of my love next to me drowsily counting my blessing sheep.I thought life was promised to me.I lay in the dark and feel the shallow rattle of my breath and in that anxious exhale is whispered that life is not promised to me.Only the promise of life has been mine.- Denise GloverDenise is survived by her partner of 24 years, Lea Ann Kjome of Berkeley; her parents, Robert and Jane Glover of Ventura; her sister Raeleen and husband Matthew Dunn of Templeton, CA; her brother Kint Glover of Fort Collins, CO; and nieces Kennen Dunn and Mollie Peters Glover, nephews Mitchell and Ryan Dunn, and many devoted friends.Denise’s memorial will be private and held in September. In lieu of flowers, Denise requested donations go to the Human Rights Campaign (www.hrc.org).Lauretta Frances StaleyThe dearest, sweetest friend any husband, child, parent or friend could ever have lovingly left us on the evening of July 31, 2009. Lauretta Frances Staley struggled valiantly with cancer for 7½ years and now has found peace and comfort, free from pain. We all will miss her gentle sweetness, adorable smile, loving stroke and soft giggles, but are comforted knowing she was so loved and adored, and loved so completely in return.Laura was born January 23, 1947 in Boulder, CO to James and Berniece Staley 8 minutes before her twin brother, Ted. The family moved to Whittier, CA, then later to Santa Paula, when Lauretta was 10. Friends made in Santa Paula were friends for a lifetime. She graduated from Santa Paula High School in 1964, and received a B.A. from San Jose State University and an M.A. from Cal State, Northridge in Special Education. She was a beloved teacher in the Hueneme School District for 20 years, leaving her gentle imprint on the many students who adored her.Throughout her life Lauretta viewed the world with the wonderment of a child even as she handled obstacles like a warrior. She taught her daughters and husband about love, strength, creativity, resilience, curiosity, and hopefulness through her immense love and wisdom. Beautiful and precious, she will be adored forever. Lauretta’s three beautiful daughters are Meegan Carlson Pozzetta (Marcus) and Rachel Carlson Hague (Shane), both of Denver, CO and Molly Rose Katz of Ojai, CA. Her precious grandchildren are Sophia Louisa Pozzetta, Samuel David Pozzetta and Madeline Lauretta Hague. She leaves her loving husband and true friend Frederick W. Coleman IV. Laura made her home with Fred and Molly on the beautiful campus of The Thacher School in Ojai.She is also survived by her brothers Ted Staley (Sandi) of Penang, Malaysia and Fred Staley (Judy) of Visalia, CA, and her dear mother Berniece of Visalia. She said good-bye to her wonderful father Jim, when he died of cancer in 1998. Others of Lauretta’s devoted family are step-children Rachel (Erik) Frey and granddaughter Abby of Salinas, CA and Dylan (Kelly) Coleman of Mt. Shasta, CA, as well as nephews James, Bruce and Jeff Staley. A multitude of friends will miss her beyond words; they will forever carry her love in their hearts.A memorial service will be held at 4:00 p.m. on Wednesday, August 5, 2009 at the St. Thomas Aquinas Catholic Church, 185 St. Thomas Dr. in Ojai. Lauretta wanted to encourage all who knew and loved her to urge loved ones to have colonoscopy screens regularly and to help the fight against cancer. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that anyone wishing to remember her make a donation to the American Cancer Society.Roger M. BrowerRoger M. Brower, 65, of Santa Paula, passed away July 23, 2009 peacefully at home in his sleep from complications of diabetes.